Being real.

WHICH IS BETTER?
Our natural inclination is to put on our best appearance with someone we hope to please or attract, but in time the full and true picture is seen. if you really love someone, allow yourself that time to see the other person as he or she really is, and be honest in presenting yourself as you actually are. 
Granted, no one wants a reputation as being proud, insensitive, lazy or lacking maturity to deal with the realities of life after marriage. but it is betterto confront these trait headlong rather than pretending that they do not exist. if you pretend, be assured they will surface later on. Close your eyes to unpleasant facts during courtship and you will certainly face them after the wedding. The Bible's counsel at Prov. 31:30 remains timeless, "Charm may be false, and beauty may be fleeting,
But the woman (or man) who fears Jehovah will be praised". so when it comes to who you would like to spend the rest of your life with, always ask yourself WHICH IS BETTER?

How do you decide?

When you are faced with a weighty decision to make, you often use only two parts of you body...Your head or your heart. using your head usually involves giving serious thought to your decisions allowing facts and reason rather than sentiments to govern or decisions.  However, using our heart means just allowing our emotions or how we feel about a matter to guide us. which has had a long history of success? which has stood out against all odds and have resulted in contentment and happiness? well thought out decisions have always prevailed in my opinion.

which do you feel?

WHICH DO YOU FEEL?
In a world where we are surrounded by people of different characteristics, we are often forced to narrow our feelings into two. those we love and those we dislike. BUT i have come to realize that those we love the most are often the ones we get angry at. here is a little proof.
-When someone you admire and respects says or does something you consider less than desirable, your anger levels goes very high BECAUSE you expected more from them, you trusted them and you believed so much in them....
-But if you are dealing with someone you do not have any feelings for or admiration, you would probably care less about what they said or did because you were not expecting anything better!
Considering how obtainable feelings like this are, You should realize that when someone is angry with you over something you said or did, it is likely because they cared, they trusted you and expected more from you. So appreciate them for their faith in you rather than responding in kind. humbly apologize if need be and move on. regarding your emotions, always ask yourself WHICH DO I FEEL?....