WHICH DO YOU FEEL?
In a world where we are surrounded by people of different characteristics, we are often forced to narrow our feelings into two. those we love and those we dislike. BUT i have come to realize that those we love the most are often the ones we get angry at. here is a little proof.
-When someone you admire and respects says or does something you consider less than desirable, your anger levels goes very high BECAUSE you expected more from them, you trusted them and you believed so much in them....
-But if you are dealing with someone you do not have any feelings for or admiration, you would probably care less about what they said or did because you were not expecting anything better!
Considering how obtainable feelings like this are, You should realize that when someone is angry with you over something you said or did, it is likely because they cared, they trusted you and expected more from you. So appreciate them for their faith in you rather than responding in kind. humbly apologize if need be and move on. regarding your emotions, always ask yourself WHICH DO I FEEL?....
In a world where we are surrounded by people of different characteristics, we are often forced to narrow our feelings into two. those we love and those we dislike. BUT i have come to realize that those we love the most are often the ones we get angry at. here is a little proof.
-When someone you admire and respects says or does something you consider less than desirable, your anger levels goes very high BECAUSE you expected more from them, you trusted them and you believed so much in them....
-But if you are dealing with someone you do not have any feelings for or admiration, you would probably care less about what they said or did because you were not expecting anything better!
Considering how obtainable feelings like this are, You should realize that when someone is angry with you over something you said or did, it is likely because they cared, they trusted you and expected more from you. So appreciate them for their faith in you rather than responding in kind. humbly apologize if need be and move on. regarding your emotions, always ask yourself WHICH DO I FEEL?....
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